If they keep contacted each other via sms, email, chat, whatever.. i think it's possible to maintain the love even if they have separated for a long time. But they must have a faith against each other

Trust or faithful is something that very hard to do in a love relationship, not only for long distance relationship but it also happen to those who meet their partner daily.

I am also have long distance relationship. And I know how hard it is to maintain my faithful to my partner. In my first year of relationship, it was not so hard, but after more than one year, I become so freak out with my own feelings. I was afraid he would be so bored with our relationship, or when he was late to call, I became mad and started to call him and asked where was he. I even could not believe what he said anymore whether it was true or not. That time I was so mad because I lost my faithful to him and me myself.

But someday he said to me, that I should believe him. He said, if he did not love me, he would not be with me until then. He wanted this relationship as I wanted to. After that, I knew that I was wrong. And I have to keep my trust on him. But how?

Then I began to learn how to let this relationship to our destiny. If God creates us to be together, then nothing will make us separated. The next thing I did was I gave him my full attention, and we also agreed to download Nimbuzz in our mobile and online whole day for each other. And it helps us very much because our communication became better until now.

It is not a problem to have long distance relationship, moreover it just one year. It is very short time. I suggest you to have something to make both of you easily to communicate, because I know how difficult it is to set faithful in the long distance relationship. Just like me, by having nimbuzz in our mobile, we can know what is our activity at present and with whom are they know, because my boyfriend always sends his pictures wherever he goes to make me believe him.

The point is, the faithful feelings will stay for long time if the both sides try to maintain it together. It will be useless if it is just you who keep your trust but your partner does not do the same. Just that the only solution to maintain faithful in a long distance relationship. Both sides should maintain it together. Good luck.

You have to be committed inside yourself first. If you are not willing to make the self commitment, then you will not be able to go the long distance in time and space to endure a "long-distance" relationship.

Basically, we live close to our nature. If you are a faithful and committed person, then the distance really means nothing. Your meeting of the minds, heart and soul begins with a journey on a whole other plane of relational vibration. You are attuned to and entrained to different patterns of behavior, because...it...is...your...choice.

You remain committed and faithful because you choose to and because it is who you are at a core level. If you cannot make that decision from your core, then you have no business attempting to make the commitment to begin with. And, in all fairness, you have to be sure the person you are in the relationship with is interested in the same goals and objectives as you are. If one of you is committed and the other is not...then there is no point because there is no balance and your objectives are too far apart.

You stay faithful in a long distance relationship because you choose to be committed to your partner and the strength of the partnership.

Invest in a long distance calling card or arrange to chat on Skype or Yahoo messenger or whatever works for you. Keeping in touch as often as possible will allow you to maintain a connection with your partner. However, you will have a lot of free time so you will need to keep busy. If you have any hobbies this is the time to throw yourself into them and keep yourself occupied. The more we do to keep busy and distracted the less likely we will be to feel lonely.

If you think of the time you spend on your own away from your partner as a good opportunity to work on all of the things you might not normally do you will keep your energy focused. Maybe you like photography or you want to learn to play a musical instrument? There are so many things you can do to keep busy even joining a community organization or volunteering at a charity. Free time is what will cause problems. Infidelity is more likely to occur when we are bored and lonely and insecure. Instead of feeling good about ourselves in productive ways we might seek validation through illicit relationships.

Exercise can also help because it releases endorphins which reduce stress and also make us feel better. These are nature’s antidepressants and the better we feel the less likely it is that we will feel the need to seek comfort from others. The more we work on ourselves and feeling good about ourselves the better off we will be in the long run anyway.

The more you are able to focus your mind on activities, hobbies, and a healthy lifestyle the less likely you will be to think about what is not currently in your life. Besides keeping busy and being a well rounded person will not only help you feel better about yourself, it will also help you to have even more to offer in your relationship when your partner does return. Good luck and I hope you are able to manage your separation in a healthy way.

Thanks so much for your answer.I like the idea of keeping oneself busy and using your free time in things that will benefit your on the long run.I appreciate your response.

The same way people stay faithful when they live near by. Commitment You don't go looking for another relationship. If another relationship comes looking for you get away from it. You communicate with your sweetheart text, email, Skype, or call. Think of ways to encourage your sweet. The key is to THINK about the relationship in your free time, I